Our Road to Home Ownership

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If I had to pick an exact starting point for our home owning journey it would probably be the moment I snapped this picture.  A little over two years ago I started looking for apartments for Josh and I to live in once we got married.  We were both in school at the time a decided to spend our summer after we got married in South Africa doing mission work.  To be able to have a home when we came back to school I had to find somewhere to rent for the summer.  Saddly our small town had very few options, and we had even less money.  I had a part time job coaching gymnastics when we were coming back and Josh had VA money for living expenses.  In a month we paid for our plain tickets to South Africa and a WHOLE summers worth of rent to hold our apartment.  At that moment I realized I was poor and so thankful that I had an academic scholarship and Josh had the GI bill to cover school.


Soon after we got one of the sketchiest apartments in town I came back to my home town to get married.  We went on a honeymoon close to home for a few days and then flew out the next week to South Africa with no money to our name.


By the end of our time in South Africa I had the scary reality that we were going back home to a sketchy apartment with no money and lots of bills we would have to pay.  I had never been responsible for paying so much on a monthly bases and I was freaking out a bit.  That is the moment we started saving EVERY penny we could.  We cooked cheap meals at home and found free activities to do.  I got creative and tried to make the run down place look a little more like home.


We decided we wanted to have a house and knew that to keep from having to pay PMI we would need 20% down, so we saved.  Sometimes it would get frustrating seeing people go on crazy vacations or eat out all the time, but we had a goal and we kept looking at the prize.  At the end of the year we moved back to my home town and started the apartment search again.  This time we decided to spend a little more money so we were scared we were going to get shot.  


We kept saving and finally got a credit card.  DUN DUN DUN.  If anyone out there is a Dave Ramsey fan I'm sorry, but getting a credit card was our best move in home ownership.  It use to be that when you payed your bills on time you would get better credit.  That is not the case anymore it is important to get a credit card use it and then pay it off to build credit so you can get a home loan. That is exactly what we did.  

We realized that we were planning on staying in the area for seven years and decided we should buy in the area.  In March we started looking for homes in our area after calculating how much we felt safe spending on our monthly house payment (with insurance, tax, and mortgage). Due to our budget we found ourselves not quite in the neighborhoods or homes we wanted to be in.  We wanted to be safe as well as know that we were making a good investment.  We realized we needed to buy a fixer upper to get what we wanted and do the work ourselves over time.  That is when we found our cute fixer upper that needs lots of fixing and put our offer in.  That process is a whole other post in itself though.

Tips to become a homeowner in your 20s:


1. Early on decide to save. Focus on the goal to buy a house and decide to give up some other luxuries people in your age group have.

2. Make a budget that includes saving as much as possible each month even if it is just a little.

3. Get a Credit Card and pay it off monthly to build Credit.  The long your credit history and the higher your credit history the easier and cheaper you can get a loan.

4. If you are handy consider buying a fixer upper to get more bang for your buck.

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